Can I just hook to these two wires from a rocker switch so I dont have too use the remote?
The OP stated he already had the remote connected, so I would suggest the first option above (in bold) to be able to use both the new switch and the existing remote. Using the second method (in red) will also work for the new switch, but may disable the operation of the existing remote.
You may be right maybe he wants to use both but he never really said that and I was thinking he wanted a rocker switch instead of the remote entirely. But yes if it is already hooked up why disconnect that to save running a 3rd wire. Just suggesting a option but yes good to point that out you can't reverse the system from the way it is being switched by the remote if it is wireless. If it were plug and jack type or wired remote it would still work it would just be switching grounds instead of hots just like the wired dash switch would be.Can I just hook to these two wires from a rocker switch so I dont have too use the remote?